thinking a lot about how people talk about collective vs individual responsibility and then without thinking about it because it's a meme, go "don't give to groups, give to individuals"
someone giving me some random money would be cool, but it really, really depends on the group because, well, pooling money opens up so many more options and helps so many more people... it just needs to be a group that is actually doing that.
trans rescue comes to mind but I'm sure there's more.
lambda is one of the few places actually worth donating to (at the present moment), too. there aren't many, but the good ones are force multipliers, even if it doesn't have visible effects you or your friends can feel good about.
like all things, it turns out extreme binary opinions repeated because everyone else has, are pretty bad in general
