i s2g the biggest conflict in online spaces is autism being flattened such that many autistic people think other autistic people will have the same way of reading things they do
mixed with the unknowing-autodidact curse many of us have until we don't of thinking the whole world can learn as fast as you, for the thing it took ten years of building your own context to understand in the way that you do, and not all that many people in the grand scheme has exactly that context. but it reads as condescending for them not to if they aren't asking questions. because you've given them no indication about your pile of context