when you make anonymous asks that are basically "re: your post that mentioned politicians not having friends, at least my lack of friends and isolation isnt immoral"
if you're looking for people, a good place to start is to decide not to pull random strangers who definitionally can't know you, down with you. No matter how shitty you feel.
if you weren't a rando maybe it'd be different, but everyone doing this really needs to like, take a good long fuckin think on what you're doing and asking of people there.