the thing I think would have changed my life at the teen-adult boundary layer was knowing pediatricians are not an accurate representation of the effort doctors will actually take.
records? yeah they're never sending them without you badgering them 3 times in 3 different mediums
reading your chart notes before doing anything? hahaha
checking for understanding like at all when using jargon? no
and the worst thing is, one of these practices constantly treats you like you're a child, and it's not the pediatrician.