"But men will fetishize womanhood if we let them have hormones"
And? If some are doing that let them, i dont believe it but i also dont care. If it makes a person happy then let them do it if its not hurting anyone.
I believe in ghosts, demons, and vampires, it hurts no one for me to do so, so its a treat for me. My reasoning is more complex than that but as far as anyone needs to know thats about it.
Also im not comparing the first thing to the second, im using the second as (quite literally) ghoulish overkill to justify the very normal first thing.
Im bad with words, can you tell?