Ok so it's one thing to just kinda not be good at FFXIV or a particular role. I get it. I typically am terrible at the game (though I've gotten better lately, esp since going on Adderall), and sometimes (often) I will just have outright bad days. I get it.
But when you go into a duty with your hotbars not even remotely set up so it takes 10 min after duty start for you, as the Tank mind you, to be ready... ok you messed up it's not great but I'm sure it'll be fine.
If you follow that up by
- Wanting to wait 2 min in front of the boss for every single cooldown to finish (when you almost certainly do not need those 2 min cooldowns in the first 2 min of the fight)
- REFUSE TO MOVE EVEN ONE TIME DURING THE BOSS TO DODGE EVEN THE MOST OBVIOUS AND MOST EASILY DODGED MECHANICS TO THE POINT YOU ACCUMULATE 7 VULN STACKS
- To emphasize, this wasn't "they were learning the mechanics and kept getting hit", this was "THEY DID NOT MOVE ONCE"
I'm! Not a happy Healer!!!!! NOT A HAPPY HEALER AT ALL!!!!!!!
Be bad at the game, I get it and I relate and honestly those duties are more fun imo! But AT LEAST PLAY THE GAME????