PC36

selcouth in demeanor and preference

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yeah it’s difficult because at the core of it that is what I want to ask but I don’t think you can just say that outright and I don’t know of any other phrases that have the same meaning but are more “socially acceptable”

Ah, I mean like: what is the actual goal of "being alone together"? Like is it hanging out, having a serious and private conversation, gay kissing, or something else? Personally, I think it's generally best to be up front about what you want

I’m not exactly sure. It’s not gay kissing, and while hanging out would be nice, I would also like to talk about more serious things. I guess the goal is to just not feel alone and trapped in my own head for some time. I would also like to come out as autistic and non-binary but that partially feels like a means to getting more private conversation. I know and like this person, and I want to spend time with them, and when I’m in a group with them, they only talk to other people. I’m fairly sure it’s just because I’m to afraid to start conversation because me I don’t know how you do that, but it still feels bad to be the only one in a group not being talked to.

Ah, that is a complicated situation. I guess I'd just go with asking them if they want to hang out, and if they something about bringing others along, say something like "actually, I also wanted to talk about something slightly private".

As for the problem of groups, try to engage them in the conversation they're already having. It's easiest when they're talking about a topic you're already familiar with, but I often have difficulty getting a word in edgewise, so >.>

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