“Is It Normal To Ask Someone If They Want To Be Alone Together” and 99 Other Social Questions That Are Obvious To Everyone Else

“Is It Normal To Ask Someone If They Want To Be Alone Together” and 99 Other Social Questions That Are Obvious To Everyone Else
yeah it’s difficult because at the core of it that is what I want to ask but I don’t think you can just say that outright and I don’t know of any other phrases that have the same meaning but are more “socially acceptable”
Ah, I mean like: what is the actual goal of "being alone together"? Like is it hanging out, having a serious and private conversation, gay kissing, or something else? Personally, I think it's generally best to be up front about what you want
I’m not exactly sure. It’s not gay kissing, and while hanging out would be nice, I would also like to talk about more serious things. I guess the goal is to just not feel alone and trapped in my own head for some time. I would also like to come out as autistic and non-binary but that partially feels like a means to getting more private conversation. I know and like this person, and I want to spend time with them, and when I’m in a group with them, they only talk to other people. I’m fairly sure it’s just because I’m to afraid to start conversation because me I don’t know how you do that, but it still feels bad to be the only one in a group not being talked to.
Ah, that is a complicated situation. I guess I'd just go with asking them if they want to hang out, and if they something about bringing others along, say something like "actually, I also wanted to talk about something slightly private".
As for the problem of groups, try to engage them in the conversation they're already having. It's easiest when they're talking about a topic you're already familiar with, but I often have difficulty getting a word in edgewise, so >.>
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