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charlenemaximum
@charlenemaximum

you should leave comments on peoples' art!

many of us are so used to the informal way of engaging with each others' art on places like twitter, where you just drop a like and a retweet and move on. but, and i won't speak for every artist on the internet, comments can be just as -- if not more -- valuable than simply just clicking the heart. the heart tells you "hey, i saw this and thought it was good", but a comment (to me at least) shows that a piece spoke to you in at least some way, even if it's just "the shading is good" or "nice color choices" or "awesome riffs". anybody can just click a button and scroll away, but those couple seconds that you spend typing something for them to read is a couple seconds of care and attention that i think really matters.

comments also open up a gateway for artists to actually interact with the people that like their work. again -- only speaking for myself -- but i absolutely love talking about art with other people, whether it be their art or my own, whether i have a substantial amount to say or just a compliment that i appreciate what they created. if you say "i like this", i might say "thanks" or i might give you a little description of how i got to that point or how i did that thing, and who knows -- maybe that comment reply might have some insight that motivates you or someone else reading it to do something similar, or engage in an artistic process of their very own.

all of this is to say -- i think you should leave comments on peoples' art on cohost if you like their art! don't simply just reblog and walk away, take a couple of seconds of your day to drop some appreciation. you might actually perk up an artist today and make them feel good about what they've made :)


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in reply to @charlenemaximum's post:

that's a good way to think about life in general, i've found :)

"if i wouldn't hate if someone did this, why do i hate when i specifically do it?"

really helped me think more positively about life just flat-out, which coincidentally made me a lot more sociable with others, and less afraid to show some appreciation to others.

god........ thats so true i get like nothing out of Number anymore and if i'm honest with myself i don't think i ever really did. gimme posts gimme words even if it's just like a keysmash and no elaboration

this is so true! i should definitely do this more than i have been... personally speaking, being on the receiving end of even the smallest of little comments on my music does indeed perk me up. one nice comment can be worth an infinite number of little heart icons. it's always nice to know people like something ofc, or that they're paying attention, but getting the extra information about what they thought was cool, or even just a little remark, knowing their appreciation, feels a lot more heartfelt

i kinda feel like i was conditioned away from interacting with stuff on e.g. twitter because it started feeding those interactions to other people in the form of like "so-and-so liked/replied to:" and that made me feel unusually self-conscious. even months after having an account here i feel like i'm still trying to break free from this

it's tough! i think probably one of the most damaging things about modern internet is how much it's about Numbers and Statistics. like, a post will get 40 likes, and in your head you'll be like "oh yeah this is a banger post!" but what do those 40 likes actually mean? they have no substance, and not much heart either (which is funny, since they're always shaped like hearts!!!).

a like doesn't ACTUALLY say anything, at best it simply motions to or suggests something. but when someone actually tells you they like your stuff, or something that they like about it, it actually speaks to you and gives you something to actually think about. even the most banal and basic comment has more substance and heart to it than any button on a website ever will.

thank you for reading! i completely understand that feeling -- you could say i partially wrote this as a determination for myself to be more proactive in my appreciation of the things people post, and posted it in hopes that people who are in a similar space can have a similar attempt in changing their habits for the better for everyone :)

nothing wrong with speaking for yourself :) as long as you can acknowledge there are lots of people in this thread who definitely sound like they generally want to leave more comments and communicate with others more, and have felt a weird friction about getting used to commenting more frequently again. folks can always use a reminder that it's ok to say something!

besides, not everything has to be Liked, you know? nothing wrong with just letting a comment just Be A Comment.

i was gonna like this post and move on (lol), but fuck it, me commentin' now! this is a good thing to read, i tend to automatically like posts i admire like any other and i should probably spend more time and energy showing respect to the artist. so yeah thanks for your post :)