Silly answer: I binge watch shoujo anime and turn myself into a magical trans girl
Serious answer: I had to reframe my ideas of what femininity were, I was always the more emotional type and felt a relief of euphoria once I was able to rid to obnoxious masculine urge to obsess over things like reason and looking, and then channel a lot of that energy into my creative output. ...and also binge watch shoujo anime (I'm marathoning them currently as I've never seen any when I was younger. Sailor Moon is great so far!)