the social vr situation fucking sucks right now because obviously vrchat is hostile and its refusal to make adults-only spaces makes interactions some of the most annoying shit on the planet, but the alternatives are currently filled with nothing but people going "haha vrchat sucks this is way better" which is also super annoying
so right now it's a choice between either a game where every instance is filled with preteens practicing their slurs, or one full of adults adults huffing their own farts over how superior the currently barely-functioning alternative is
I suggest the new social hotspot for vr be No Man's Sky
