This post has content warnings for: trans medical issue, one vague graphic medical detail, money laments.
it's been really scary being pretty powerless to help on a financial level; for what it's worth, i'm going to pump the brakes hard on my own spending so i can assist with my own commission work. every little bit helps. again, we'll all keep you apprised.
their consult is in july, that's already paid for. the big operation will likely be several months after that, so... it's about half a year or so we have to plan and save and figure shit out.
