Quelklef

milk consumer

girly but not a girl

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im pretty sure i experience ADHD time blindness and it seems to mean that its really hard for me to remember feeling any way besides how i feel now, which can make it difficult to process & analyze

specifically i find it extremely difficult to evaluate a relationship with a person because i cannot see the way i have felt over time, only how i feel now. this makes it easy for bad days to make me feel like the relationship had never been valuable, and good days to make me wonder why i ever doubted, or something like that

i see this in other areas of my life, too, like work.

i might have to start keeping a log of how i feel about things for the express purposes of remembering. hmmmm


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in reply to @Quelklef's post:

well, the format that works best for me is the one with the absolute least friction to start up. so it's a pile of sticky notes in the most text-editor-like-app I could get on my phone. (don't have anything that syncs it with my computer but that's reasonably ok for me personally)

bonus points if you have some ability to tag notes / sort notes into folders based on subject (e.g. "relationship" "work todo" "fun todo")

also if you put a bunch of things into one text file, keeping the most recent stuff at the top instead of at the bottom is totally the way to go