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Victoria Rose | Bi trans girl | Game/UX Designer | Creator of Secret Little Haven | Your local otherkin cartoon snep kitty :3



I recently came to the realization that I’m my roommate’s sole source of physical, emotional, financial, housekeeping, and transportation support, and I don’t even like them as a person.

I need to get the hell away from them but since they refuse to meet other people or do anything on their own IRL, they don’t have anywhere else to go, especially since they refuse to even consider full time work and instead just half heartedly try and make a living on occasional commission work.

I don’t want to throw them out but for fuck’s sake they’re so damn annoying and dependent that I just don’t want to deal with them anymore.

But my other roommate who I actually do really like is moving away in September so also if they were both to leave then I would need to find TWO new roommates. This really sucks, I would lose my goddamn mind if I had to live alone with this person without at least one nice person to keep me sane.


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in reply to @QuestForTori's post:

we had someone like this at the old flat and the best approach was a flat meeting where we just laid down the cards. not a direct threat but very frankly discussing the reality of their awful conduct and why things needed to get better. i felt fucking terrible but it worked (financially, they still didn't do dishes but hey).

you gotta stick up for yourself during it. they're not your responsibility.