this is unkind but i really cannot overstate how if you are old enough to remember 9/11 and the ensuing war fever of the bush administration and you are now repeating talking points about hamas and palestine that equivocate on whether or not this level of retribution is "deserved" then you are fully the same as the type of person who would have been frothing at the mouth to invade iraq in the 00s
also it should go without saying that repeating these talking points basically means a person stands in full-throated support of a genocide so like. idk. enjoy having a monstrous worldview