bluesky is ran by the same idiots who ran twitter into the ground. its central thesis is "moderation is too hard". the entire governing board are crypto weirdos. Any claims of interoperability are as-yet unseen. It is not a stable lifeboat and watching people flock to it is sad, lol
my hope is that people realize that social media (especially "twitter-flavored" ones) should never be your primary choice for socializing with other human beings. anxiety and social pressure be damned, we need to find genuine and natural connection with each other again. obviously things are a little different if you live in an isolated area or anything like that. but we have to try. we have to undo the 10 years of brain poisoning from the fucked up social dynamics of social media and connect with each other in more honest ways.
cohost may never be a "solution" to this problem, and i don't know if just "picking the right social network" is the move either.
social media should be a tool to communicate, and nothing more. it cannot be a proper substitute for actual socialization -- it is a wholly untenable situation when you have to move to a different place every few years and "start over" your online social lives from scratch.