i also went most of my life without realizing/being in denial abt it, and i've felt similarly abt diagnosis. do i want the validation of a "professional opinion"? sure. do i want to risk the pain of being told i'm faking for attention or insisting i be medicated? fuck no!
i love my headmates and they're my best friends :3
ive had a few bad experiences coming out as plural, unfortunately mostly with ppl i was tryna date, but thankfully my wonderful gf has been very supportive and enthusiastic abt interacting with us as a plural system
i've been trying to get the courage to be more upfront with my plurality online, seeing as it's a lot easier to find ppl who understand what i'm working with and aren't just humoring me, as well as other plural folks
anyway it's my birthday and u have to be nice to me. i'm just five lil guys! u wouldn't be mean to five lil guys on their birthday :3
