my wife thinks she's doing me a favor by overtaxing herself with childcare stuff, but she's really not, and i wish she would talk to me more about it before deciding to take the entire morning to do errands with a 5-year-old in tow
though really i should ask her not to even after she's said she's going to. the main reason i don't usually is that our kid is more attached to her and hates having plans changed on him, but it's hard on everyone when mommy gets burnt out