It's very funny to me that the closest I've ever been to finding a "person" that is even close to my gender feelings or goals is Kozuki Oden/Yamato from One Piece. A show I've been half watching during dinner with the roommates, haven't even seen the whole thing!
Appearance and body are very much one of a cis woman, complete with giant boobs. However, he has a very masculine personality, name, and attitude. A lot of people don't take his name or his gender seriously, but he doesn't really care.
(CW: Weight and body discussion under the fold)
As I get older, I've been really trying to work on finding peace with my body. I mean, true, soul deep peace. There are things I can change, like getting a reduction some day, but I'll never be that hot thin androgynous person that the non-binary label implies. I will always have a soft body, stretch lines, scars, and other weird things.
I'm fortunate that I've found someone who loves me as I am and for who I am, but there's still that sadness as I look into the mirror. The nice thing is that all of the work can be applied to my body as it ages. It's work we all have to do, I'm just doing it early.