personally i like to think of aromanticism and asexuality as more of modifiers. like, i'm a lesbian, and the kind of lesbian i am is aroace. i like my wives in an asexual arospec kind of way yknow

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personally i like to think of aromanticism and asexuality as more of modifiers. like, i'm a lesbian, and the kind of lesbian i am is aroace. i like my wives in an asexual arospec kind of way yknow
same, like I don't really choose to identify with labels beyond gay/trans but seeing stuff like aspec things more as modifiers and less as labels/discreet identities is Good For Me, since for all intents and purposes I'm probably aro