so wild remembering out of nowhere that my youngest brother(?) is polyamorous and bi(?) and possibly also a bit gender??? it was our mom who told me and i haven't visited family since then so i think it's not gonna feel real until i actually talk to him about it. but also idk if he'll want to talk about it at all bc he's not exactly a chatty person dhdhjdj it's not like i've talked to him specifically much about my queerness, or much of anything at all tbh... so it feels silly to expect us to suddenly connect more just bc of this, but also why shouldn't we! i'll never know unless i try. at the very least i should probably tell him what mom told me, idk if she asked permission to out him, might not have occurred to her
