SludgerSlipfwysh

mammal-mollusk sowslug

  • shi/hir, it/its, they/them

Shape-shifty mutant chimera hermaphrodite. Problematic garden pest. American badger kinnie. That rotten tranny faggot cockroach queer.

I'm pro-kink and don't take kindly to kink-shaming or antis. If you can't get along with paraphilic people you might just be a bigot. Cohost was not pro-kink, and that's bad.

You can message me on Telegram @ Sludger_Slipfwysh



Anonymous User asked:

hi! Found your blog and just want to say I appreciate you being vocally pro-kink. I am too but I'm too chicken shit about community retaliation to come off anon about it. I had hoped at first that cohost would be friendlier on the whole about this stuff, and it breaks my heart seeing people gleefully being cops & bigots instead. anyways, thank you for being yourself. I hope I can someday be as public-facing about it as you. I hope you have a really really good week.

Shi appreciates the acknowledgement.

I perceive being outspoken as ultimately necessary to carve out space for one's self and protect their right to be a freak. It takes practice and a whole lot of nerve, and I have definitely gotten it wrong several times before. It takes time, learning from mistakes (you gotta make mistakes, sorry to say), and a mountain of patience and compassion.

I understand not everyone can be up front about it, but I also feel like this is about showing antis that their position is not popular or constructive. People should fight for what they love so they can have it, but maybe not before they're good and ready. Maybe one day the Anti Software Software Club will own up to the mistakes that they've made in policy (wouldn't even be that hard to set right, IMO), here's hoping.

Shi is having roast ham and sauteed vegetables for dinner and I am baking fresh bread tomorrow. Shi is thriving.


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