being non-binary and bi/Pan means I always feel out of place in any queer space I've managed to find and hey that sucks a lot.
and idk that it's necessarily anyone's "fault" I just have such a hard time identifying with people. maybe it's my fault.

a 30-something cat creature with gender confusion
I really like PSO1, Elder Scrolls, weird old games, prog music, mac and cheese, and other things but I'm really bad at remembering stuff when I want to make a list
I wish I could be isekai'd into a world that sucked slightly less
being non-binary and bi/Pan means I always feel out of place in any queer space I've managed to find and hey that sucks a lot.
and idk that it's necessarily anyone's "fault" I just have such a hard time identifying with people. maybe it's my fault.
it's definitely really hard to find a place in a lot of queer spaces - i think at some point while talking with a friend about it we referred to it as lgbt spaces vs queer spaces and i think that really hit the nail on the head for me. lgbt spaces, despite having the "t" - often ending up being cis gays, comformist queers - which like as long as they aren't pressuring anyone else to conform i don't care, but like. that kind of space ain't for me. on the other hand, queer or more specifically genderqueer spaces - that's where it's at for me
If you have any recommendations for queer discords or something I'd love to hear them
i unfortunately don't have many. most of the online spaces i hang in are glorified group chats or servers for space station 14, which i'd recommend for its gameplay, roleplay, and community vibe - but it's kinda hard to find a place that feels really comfortable for community vibe unless you've been around a while. or that may just be me because i have a hard time socializing lol. but that all kinda assumes that you'd even be into space station 14 at all, which - it's its own game and all.
i don't really have that experience, being nonbinary and bisexual, but then the queer spaces i hang out in are almost completely local ones