the same TBS meta, the whole "is it white fragility or transmisogyny" debate, the whole bullshit i've seen on fedi last year (and spread on bsky a few months ago)....... is now on cohost.
i'm tired. i'm really tired, and i do not fucking want to lose friends just because they push me to one side or another out of either genuine belief or just selfish self-interest.
people will fucking throw me out of the bus just because i have different opinions from the group i am part of. the people around me are firmly in the "it's a transmisogynistic attack" side but idk..... i'm transfem but i'm also mixed race and i also been discriminated many times racial-wise yet the people in my circle want to downplay how i feel because it suits their fucking interest.... like can they just fucking listen to people that aren't white, can they listen to people like me when i don't say shit that benefits them?
this isn't exactly in support of are0h either, although people on cohost probably won't know who he is. like i agree that fediverse is a racist place full of white fragility but then that dude pulled out a rape apologia just to not share an opinion with his enemy so i don't think i can trust him.