this might be like a very AGP/trans-fetishizing thought but I want to talk about it either way:
I really love the idea of people discovering that they enjoy being treated like the opposite gender or having the opposite sex, I like the idea of a “man” coming to the realization that they feel more emotionally fulfilled and enjoy life more as a woman and vice versa, kinda like a forcefem or tf thing, when they become a woman and realize “oh my god, this is what I’ve been missing”.
and i think it’s like a trauma thing from being very upset at the idea of myself being trans when I first really came to terms with that