I found out today that at least three people I regularly hang out with were actively being homophobic and Transphobic at the local card shop today, and only one of the like, 20 people regularly there said anything against them, and he's the one I get rides from. So I may not be safe in the one place I felt accepted.
Like, This has been the one place that hasn't been hostile to me being queer. And finding out that One person there will speak up for me is just really heartbreaking. I thought these guys cared.
The three problem people have been permanently banned from the store. And I got a huge outpour of love and acceptance from the rest of the group in the discord server I made for them. So It Is still a safe place for me.

i hope you can find that kind of space again.