if you see a post that upsets you… you’re probably better off just leaving it alone and moving on to other things. don’t send criticisms on anon, don’t vaguepost about it as if no one will see. especially if the users involved in said post are already getting many comments, asks, etc. about it. no one likes a dogpile.
throwing more fuel on the fire, even if you think you mean well, is likely not going to be constructive or worth your time. more likely it will just raise tensions even more.
instead i recommend disengaging and seeking out other posts in a constructive way — discover a new artist and rechost their art. listen to a new song from a song recommendation post. comment with sympathy and understanding on someone’s vent post.
and lastly, remember that purposefully seeking out content that upsets you is harmful and self-defeating. please take care of yourself everyone.