though i have not read it yet (though i plan to), Whipping Girl by Julia Serano recently had a third edition published with some additional thoughts, and considering it's the work that coined the word transmisogyny, i would highly recommend it as a theoretical background to the idea
Hot Allostatic Load is also a fantastic piece about the trauma transmisogynistic exile from community creates, and how much it fucking destroys not just your mind but also your body being stuck in crisis mode from being abandoned and disposed of.
and, if you will allow me to be selfish and plug my own work for a moment, i do consider my work The Abuser's Guide to Transmisogyny to be worth reading as well, as a satirical guidebook in the vein of A Modest Proposal about how transmisogynistic harassment campaigns are enacted.
once again, i cannot thank you enough for being able to be respectful about this, it means a lot to me. i hope your days are peaceful as well and that the works of trauma i have linked are rarely relevant to your life.

