as a cis person i think too many cis people have no idea what they want out their own gender representation so they just make up weird stereotypes about each other because of one bad experience they had
i mean, there's plenty Traditional Gender Roles that have fucked a lot of people up but I think with social media, it's gotten to a parody level
I dealt with a lot of "not man enough" bullying growing up and the fact that it still kind of exists as adults is fucking crazy
