i think the problem with online and society in general is white supremacy in that white people essentially have the keys to the house that is cultural significance and a lot of white cultural is steeped in self-centeredness and competition while I've come to find that every other culture is far more warm and welcoming
One of my best and longest friendships is with a Palestinian dude and I will always remember how I showed up to his house once and he told me to get in the car so we could go get food and when I did a quick pit stop in the bathroom and ran into his mom she told me they had no food in the house (a lie, there was so much but all of it needed cooking still) so she was making us go out for food to make sure the guest (me) was fed.
I never got that treatment from most of my white friends unless they're Italian (something about the Mediterranean here...)
One of the reasons I've basically attached baking to my personality is because being able to express my appreciation, admiration, or affection through food makes me feel good
