
๐NSFW, 18+ only๐
Transfem enby. Nonbinary and still managing to not conform to their gender. Est 1992 (hope this counts for age requirements from peeps because I will forget to update otherwise). Decidedly horny and kinky, so your typical pan disaster. Also into cars, games, and random geeky shit.
I know that speaking for myself, I feel a lot less apprehensive exploring my darker kinks while in a good space mentally, because I am more confident in my ability to engage with it in a healthy manner. When I'm not doing well, I get anxious trying to engage with those kinks, because I might use it in unhealthy ways, such as shaming myself (in a not-hot way) for feeling that way. I can dismiss that shame and self-loathing when I'm more clear-headed.