31 y/o white passing mixed w/ Black monster woman from the Netherlands. Artist (occasionally). Writer (again, every so often). Prone to camera sniffing behavior, one of them θΔ folk.

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chirasul
@chirasul

a lot of you didn't use tumblr so you don't know this but I really recommend not using your profile info and pinned post to advertise a list of reasons to bully you. seriously, putting a bunch of personal info on your pinned posts won't actually do anything useful for people who respect you, and will only be picked through by people looking for victims who will react or be strongly affected by bullying. especially if you're in the habit of making funny posts that get shared a lot. Cohost is not exempt from containing insecure weirdos who want to pick on easy targets. wait until after getting to know someone before deciding whether you can trust them with your whole story. You don't owe anyone a description of your mental illnesses or traumas or anything. stay safe stay mysterious


fwankie
@fwankie

Hi, my name is Frankie and I have poor night vision and hearing, my phone is brand new and I don't have find my device set up but I do have contactless payments. I usually keep it in one pocket and my keys in the other. carjackers & fraudsters DNI


chirasul
@chirasul

hi I'm Chirasul. just baked a pie so i think i'll set it on the sill of this open window to cool and then go take a 3 hour nap in my bedroom with the door closed


Siberys
@Siberys

Hi I'm Siberys, I like to chase cats into rooms full of ominous industrial machinery with high ceilings and dripping water and not look behind me when the cat gets obviously freaked out


VeraLycaon
@VeraLycaon

Hi, I'm Vera, the friendly neighborhood creature of the night freaky goth chick with a wild sun allergy that keeps me from going out during the day. I'm also allergic to silver, but I'll be sure to answer any questions you like as long as you'll invite me into your home. Clergy DNI


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in reply to @chirasul's post:

my life got a lot easier once i realized that bullies dont actually seek out any specific demographics or personalities; weird or normal, gay or straight, girl or boy, anything in-between. they only seek out people who will be strongly affected or who will have a big reaction to bullying. people who react. cuz they're looking for a reaction! the only way to fend them off is to deny them what they want. i, however, will be more than happy to bully you about your opinions on farting.

see that works even better. real ones will LOVE what they find after the mystery is gone, and phonies who want to bully you will fight past the mystery and then find nothing of interest to them and get disenchanted with their whole bullying ethos

in reply to @jaidamack's post:

this also leaves out its created a culture of people obsessively combing profiles to find out what someone is "allowed" to speak on, or expecting someone to air their personal baggage and history online in order to be allowed to speak, or to not be considered a Bad -ism/-ist Person (TM).

stopping doing that kills 2 birds with 1 stone.

in reply to @chirasul's post:

frankly we need to go back to a general understanding that you aren't obligated to tell anybody a goddamn thing. no I'm not putting my age or heritage or mental health status or likes/dislikes or whatever the hell else in my profile. you will glean what I desire to share over time from my posts like one does talking to another human being or you will deal with me not packaging myself with a nutritional values list like a thing to be consumed. good lordt