Also, at this point, Shangrila MUX is my main stomping grounds.
I like it for a number of reasons; I enjoy being a stranger in a strange land, and while its staff are leaning VERY HEAVILY into something more gaslight-fantasy or steampunk-adjacent, I'm still thoroughly cyberpunk and while I get a few dirty looks from folks who're feeling stodgy about the theme (see: an interdimensional locus-of-worlds wherein the local deity figure pulls people in through a portal, converts them to Dreamstuff, and keeps them forever, immortal) folks generally just roll with it.
The grid roleplay is legitimately interesting and I've spent twenty years in the place on and off, kinda bouncing off or just getting a cool partner or two and then wandering away, back and forth. The idletimer is aggressive - if you've been gone for 60d when a quarterly wipe comes up, you get wiped, so save a log! - but if you're there and active it's wonderful. I got involved with the grid for the first time this last go-round and this is my only character bit that's lasted more than a year; going on four!
It was very welcoming to me in a tough time, and while Sam and I were having very tough feelings to sit alongside (it was COVID and my Owner just cancelled a trip to see us, so I felt very separated from my people and life, Sam from her old self), going to a place where you are expected to feel sundered-from in that way was healthy and useful to us.
I run the kitchens (which simultaneously exist only in my headcanon but are somehow renowned throughout the City and recognized for quality by the Prince himself) at the biggest brothel in town with a dronehive Sam and I bootstrapped out of tech we kitbashed by hand.
Come hang! We're in House Serpens, which is about keeping the City entertained. We flooded the arena at the Pleasure Dome and did naumachia one year!
I'm Marla there, too. http://www.shangrilamux.com