the more I try and figure out style, the more I wonder if I just want cottagecore
those kinda more muted natural colors that don't pop too much and make you look like you're from a tiny village in the woods, an almost Bohemian style but not quite? A lot of Bohemian is noisier than what I'd want tbh
a lot of times I look at stuff like the ones attached and wonder if I like the style or want to be the people in the style. or maybe both
(image source: http://fashiontasty.com/a-guide-to-wearing-bohemian-style/)