When I first came out, do note I had to come out a few times as my family thought I was crazy and took a wait and see approach if I'd shake out of it, I told my mother my chosen name.
She didn't like it, and thought it was too old-fashioned, so I never went with it. I hate myself for trying hard to appease her and trying to transition in the 'right' way that'd get me accepted as her daughter. It was always going to be a fools errand with how ambivalent she was. never outright hostile, but never completely accepting either.
I came across an article here: Popular Trans People Names
It's given me such a sense of shame and dysphoria that I am not amongst those that picked the same name. To me, I will always be an Emily. I don't think I'll ever get a chance to ever change it to correct course, I've already dealt with the hassle to change my name the first time around and want to save myself more heartache having to reintroduce myself.