cohost has basically everything i want in a social network except for like 98% of my friends

cohost has basically everything i want in a social network except for like 98% of my friends
yeah I'm struggling to get my friends on cohost, it feels like most people who I know would use it already have their own personal, separate-hosted blog
It works for me because none of my friends are Normal™️ about the same things about which am very Normal ™️