website duck. 32-years-old. otherkin.


i don't know anyone who has tens of thousands of followers on twitter and is unambiguously happy about it. i don't know anyone who has gone viral and had an unambiguously positive experience. i have never personally created something with the escape velocity to break out of my circle of influence into unknown places and didn't get tugged at by an instinct to pull the plug while that's still an option. a lot of people online are trying to catch a bullet train with a bug net and have no plan for what to do if they succeed.



Anonymous Guest asked:

How hard do think it'd be for someone attaining an initial furry friendgroup for a neurodivergent graysexual in their 30's with nerdy special interests but no schooling?

i've been a furry for like 16 years so i can't speak from experience, but as making friends as an ace-spec neurodivergent thirty-something goes i think furries are one of the easier crowds. i'd say join some discord servers run by folks with common interests and just interact and see how it plays out :)


 
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