Generally, the bigger they are, like tarantulas and wolf spiders (jumping spiders are ok even thou they're small) are more ok! I can hold those ones
It's a certain amount of leg to body ratio that causes an irrational fear response re; spiders

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Generally, the bigger they are, like tarantulas and wolf spiders (jumping spiders are ok even thou they're small) are more ok! I can hold those ones
It's a certain amount of leg to body ratio that causes an irrational fear response re; spiders