I think the expectation for trans people to be nice to cis people who are insanely bigoted to them is insane. My cis brother will misgender me, call me slurs, and threaten to kill me but the moment I’m not buddy-buddy and friendly to him I’m suddenly told to ‘be nice’.
He can misgender me, call me slurs, and threaten to kill me, but I can’t be a little bit rude to him and say I don’t want to play a party game with him.
