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Maybe cohost could help find it but there’s an essay I read many years ago about “failed womanhood/failed women” as it pertains to trans women, butch lesbians, etc. and I just can’t seem to find it, I think it was written by Yuval Avrum but she seems to have nuked her online presence so I’m not sure, maybe it’s on way back but I can’t remember where it was posted but perhaps medium, but yeah would really like to read that essay again and share it with a friend so if you have any idea or are perhaps better at finding things on the internet than me I would greatly appreciate the help!