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You want to know if your corner of Cohost is responsible for upholding a white supremacist culture? Here is a guide to help you understand. The bullet point list is derived from a work called "From Dismantling Racism: A Workbook for Social Change Groups." I haven't read it, but if you'd like to, PDF Here

Non-white people: I carry this around for situations where I'm the one dissenting voice experiencing racism. As we all know, racism usually doesn't look like ppl hurling slurs and more often looks like tone-policing, getting call aggressive for reacting in rational ways, etc. I use this guide to remind me when I'm being gaslit. I also use it to make sure I don't fall into the same pitfalls described in the guide.

White people: This will help you recognize the culture in those around you and yourself. I suggest keeping it around if you are looking to get more active in fighting against this culture.

For all intensive purposes, "organization" = Cohost and "people in power" = the racial majority (white people) on this site (people in power do not equal the 5 devs at cohost. If anything they've said in the past is relevant, they are still considered part of the overall racial majority of the site). Because the document doesn't map 1-to-1 with a social media, some of these points are irrelevant or don't make sense in terms of "people in power." We'll ignore those. Also sorry there's some weird formatting on some of these.

I'm going to highlight some of these points of White Supremacy Culture I've seen transpire on this website for the last few days. If any of you have had trouble connecting how certain actions on this site have been racist, this will hopefully give you a clearer understanding.

mistakes are seen as personal, i.e. they reflect badly on the person making
them as opposed to being seen for what they are: mistakes

Example: someone I have blocked did something bad so if they complain about racism it isn't valid

equating individual acts of unfairness against white people with systemic
racism which daily targets people of color

Another way to spin the last one,: the person u mentioned did X so you should give equal weight to what they did and the racism they are experiencing

a lot of energy in the organization is spent trying to make sure that people's
feelings aren't getting hurt or working around defensive people

emphasis on being polite

invalidating people who show emotion

Ie, if you are capping for racists, I shouldn't be allowed to say fuck you

if it's not in a memo, it doesn't exist

This is what the pushback to the new missing stair community guidelines look like. Not everything can be in writing and in order to have good moderation, discretion is needed. Sorry!

those with strong documentation and writing skills are more highly valued,
even in organizations where ability to relate to others is key to the mission

This is what it looks like every time someone bombards this site with 20 chapters of text instead of saying sorry for being racist. This is what it looks like when white ppl circulate giant meta posts giving the benefit of doubt to other white ppl for their racism.

those with power assume they have the best interests of the organization at
heart and assume those wanting change are ill-informed (stupid), emotional,
inexperienced

Lot's of victim blaming these last few days

when someone raises an issue that causes discomfort, the response is to
blame the person for raising the issue rather than to look at the issue which is
actually causing the problem

the belief that those with power have a right to emotional and psychological
comfort

scapegoating those who cause discomfort

The backbone of all the racist harassment on this site


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If you spend time on any social media platform, the answer is yes whether you ask the question or not. The point of this isn't to point fingers, but to actively dismantle that culture.

"emphasis on being polite"

"invalidating people who show emotion"

"those with power assume they have the best interests of the organization at
heart and assume those wanting change are ill-informed (stupid), emotional,
inexperienced"

This shit is WAY too fucking common on political twitter, especially the br*tish side of it.

Thank you for sharing this.

I have not yet read the linked text, only the highlights but:

"those with strong documentation and writing skills are more highly valued,
even in organizations where ability to relate to others is key to the mission"

Stands out so much. This is like the explicit strategy of people who don't hide their supremacist intentions. The root of the caricature that shouts "debate me"

And I've been in well intentioned spaces ruled by this doctrine. This is where I'd love to say "but I'm better at documentation than they were so I beat them at their own game." But it doesn't work like that. They can just shift to another defense mechanism. Sure you have all the evidence and put it all together in a single package we can read without even swearing but... don't you think you're kind of making a scene?

It's like a bait so they can dismiss writings that are quick AND force people to spend time and energy on writings that will also be dismissed on some other pretense

Bingo. This is why I try to be brief with these clowns. If you need to write 10 volumes of text to back up your point, then it sounds like you're trying to overwhelm me more than you actually know what your point is.

Thank you for sharing this. The "emphasis on being polite" is the one that gets me the most. This is "None of the dissent we allow can be disagreeable or unpleasant" disguised as "Please be nice" and many (usually whites) simply don't understand that if there's a problem of this magnitude to begin with, the time to be fucking nice about it is never.

It's hard to deprogram myself from the mentality, no-one really wants to FEEL like they're being shouted at even when it's not what's actually going on. I usually try to remind myself that people aren't angry for no reason. It is always reasonable and morally correct to be angry at the problem when the problem is THIS one.

Thank you for sharing this. Haven't been as in touch with the social media spaces and the issues everyone's dealing with there but reading over it 100% matches the struggles I've been seeing in the in person community I've been participating in lately, and that document I think is going to prove extremely useful in contextualizing and addressing issues there.