If you hand me a gift and say "Merry Christmas" and I ask "would you like me to open this now with you or keep it till Christmas?" (Or similarly with "Happy Birthday") I need an answer that is one of those two options. "Whatever you like" or other dodgings of the question make me feel like you're trying to test my ability to know the correct answer on my own question about your preferences and gives me an anxiety attack.
This keeps happening and I can't handle it, I just end up feeling like a terrible person the whole time.
