as much as i wish some Events from March 2023 didn't happen, they sure made it clear to me throughout the year that:
- i wasn't as allo as i thought i was;
- i have specific boundaries regarding intimacy (and especially sexual intimacy) for a reason - and they're worth enforcing;
- anyone willingly pushing or straight up disregarding said boundaries is absolutely not worth getting involved with in any way;
- my gut feeling is shockingly accurate when it comes to assessing whether someone is a threat or not and i should trust it more
