genuinely what the fuck is going on in some ppl's mind that they meet someone new and automatically assign them the "mommy dommy" label, which is always followed by a complete and utter disregard for common boundaries between ppl?? why do you think it's acceptable after knowing me for less than thirty minutes to go all "i need a new collar with a tag that says "bottom""??? jfc i already get pushed out of most internet queer spaces because of shit like this i really wish it didn't start happening in racing games spaces too
