hanging out in fully-online queer spaces always depresses me when the conversation turns to visions of the gender-expansive future. kids fantasizing about cis men who get vaginoplasty if they want or "ooh, what if a non-binary person could have a fully-functional penis and a vagina", and I have to be the one to say: my friends, the future is now, the time is here, you can and should argue that these things should be more accessible but estrogen femboys, pussy bears, phallo dykes, and design-your-own-genital-configuration NBs exist and you can read their blogs. subscribe to their onlyfans. say hi on social media, whatever. this is your community, this is who you need to support, find them, embrace them, and be free
I don't personally use Reddit but AMAB w/ GD is a group I came across that is pretty much exactly that first one. It's a bunch of guys (and other people, if they feel like it's their scene) who are AMAB and have some kind of dysphoria but don't feel like a binary transition to womanhood suits them. Pulling it up today, one of the most recent posts is an older masc nonbinary person with a full beard celebrating his vaginoplasty with his husband. He takes testosterone in much the same way a trans man his age would. Good for him.
