FUCK i feel this so fucking much like i have a deeper understanding of my interests than casual fans of most of my interests but i cant do more and anyone who's seriously into them blows me out of the water, especially in input-heavy games i love.
its caused several depressive spirals because "obviously if i cant even be good at the few things i do enjoy whats the fucking point"
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in reply to @natatorialremnants's post:
aka the "i (obviously[??]) do not like doing this thing to the level of [unreasonable standard] therefore i probably just don't like it that much at all and i'm probably not qualified to talk about it" effect
Mood, though just with ADHD for me. The number of times I’ve told someone “I love this band so much!” And they’re like “me too! Don’t you love <album I’ve never heard of>?!?!”
😅
Eventually I’ve just learned it’s okay to love things you aren’t an expert on and it’s actually a rude sort of gate keeping for others to make you feel like you must have a certain level of knowledge to be a “real fan”. So I just ignore those people now.
