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pervocracy
@pervocracy

randomly thinking about my AP Psychology class which consisted of:

  • abstruse terminology and full-page diagrams used to explain concepts like "most people like having friends"
  • Buzzfeed-level determination to divide humanity into a low, round, usually divisible-by-four number of Elemental Types
  • in 1965 a professor told 20 undergrads he'd pay them $10 if they'd pretend to be Nazis for 10 minutes, and SOME SAID YES!!! so now we know how the Nazis happened
  • have u tried reframing all ur negatives as positives? here are some unfairly easy examples of negatives. plz no negatives based in genuinely unmet material needs okay
  • sexual disorders chapter a goddamn mess of "if societal discrimination causes 'significant impairment or distress' then it means you're the one with the disorder" logic. also zero concept that people can practice fetishes consensually
  • the one thing I learned that really was new, true, and useful, but god am I mad about it: there is no such thing as catharsis. you can't get anger "out of your system" by expressing it, it's more like a muscle that only gets stronger with exercise. which is super shitty because a lot of the things that make me angry aren't things that I should "just let go" they're actual problems in the world. but the only options are to find ways to calm myself anyway or to be so furious so often that it damages my health. no way to righteously scream myself into serenity. but there should be dammit.

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in reply to @pervocracy's post:

I always suspected that last point. Some therapists talk about emotions like chiropractors, like there's some subluxation tangling up my emotions and if I could just get my energies flowing properly all my depression would go away. Some of my friends insist that catharsis is necessary. I'm not going to claim I have anything figured out, but I'm damn good at emotionally grounding myself to a reasonable base state as long as someone isn't deliberately trying to keep me off balance. (and I'm starting to consider that a form of abuse.)

In college I took a class called "the social psychology of emotion" all about stuff like that last bullet point and stuff relating to theories around emotions as more physical feelings that we rationalize after the fact into local cause and effect emotions and dang that class was therapy