Mostly because I see a ton of y'all running linux, then there is me, running windows 10/11 for everything. This site seems to cater to a lot of people that actually know what they are doing on a computer. My expertise in that field extends no farther than understanding the experimental flags on Chrome.
The only things I've coded were a Neopets page and a "how many days have you been alive" calculator in Visual Basic that I made for my high school senior project. Beyond that, every attempt I've made to learn coding has been fruitless. Despite this, the online communities I have gravitated towards are ones dominated by coders. The queer programming sphere has a lot of interests that intersect with mine! I enjoy reading the posts and comments and jokes, even though I don't understand a lot of the stuff about Linux and mathematical theorems and strings of code.
It took me a while to realize that even though I don't understand those things, no one worth listening to is going to judge me for that. What matters is that the other things being discussed, which includes deep dives about queerness and living on the internet and photography and cats, those subjects appeal to me and speak to me. And I can contribute in my own ways, because this is not a community of just coders. This is a community of weirdos, of strange people finding other strange people to be strange with. We lift each other up with our art and writing and comedy. We all look at someone's fuckery with a .jpeg of eggbug and go YES! EGGBUG! and it brings us joy as a group.
You don't have to be a programmer to belong in this space that is predominantly defined by weirdness. You just have to be a bit strange, and everyone's at least a bit strange.
If you like things share them with others because then you might find they like those things too and now you have a friend.
Just because I'm running Linux doesn't mean that I "know what I'm doing".
I'm still not 100% sure my Nouveau drivers work at all, because apparently modern computers use some fancy hybrid graphics stuff and Linux is not very good at reporting it well.