jaidamack
@jaidamack

I think I've made the comparison once before already, but Cohost really is starting to feel more and more like a friendly local pub as successive waves of users come on in.

There's the film critics and the labour organisers and the technically inclined - both physical and digitally so - alongside the furries and the terminally horny artists and the fantasy enthusiasts and wargamers and history buffs and CSS criminals. But the Venn diagram of each group doesn't feel like a hard circle as much as the squiggling knots of headphone shibari you pull out of your pocket. People are perfectly happy to mix and mingle and chat and share with one another, and there doesn't feel like there's been any particular shame or trepidation of, "Ooh, I can't share that from a furry account," or, "I hope this person won't mind me sharing from an obviously horny alt." Maaan, whatever. Everybody's just In On It and it's so surprisingly chill.

As well, I haven't seen yet a single rechost with added commentary that felt snide or dismissive, or that classic of the quote tweet, "I've chosen to deliberately misunderstand what you've tweeted and be as virulently contrary as possible." So far it's all had that sense of people just chatting naturally, and the occasional, "Oh, hey, that reminds me of-" or the related, "You know, you're on to something. I think it'd worth remembering-" and on it goes.

It's nice. I dig it.


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Cohost's active context may require more patience and fortune for someone to be heard by others and feel a lot more quiet to someone without a lot of people they know well or wish to hearken to their posted work here, but I can manage that.

More than anything, Cohost is fucking non-toxic, like the very best science-fiction Consuite group of friendly newfound animals and vintage beasts of auld on sofas, who're there for the company and creative sparkplugging and embraces, not to dress each other down like all it ever meant to afford was a sausage-measuring contest about the aesthetics involved or personal preferences, something I've always thought was to be celebrated and at least respected and hearkened, in other Fursons and sci-fi fans.

I may only know many of the people I've met here at a distance, whether or not I've known them elsewhere beforehand like you, Jaida, and it made me very happy to see you here as well. And however spare our contact, you've never once made me feel like a bug underfoot, probably not even if I deserved it, and the latter happened at least once at the very beginning of our acquaintance.

Even then, I never felt like I was a burden of compromise or poor speck of doom to you, and here on Cohost I've never heard that in anyone's profession of tone, whether they addressed me directly or I read their stories in posts ongoing. I feel very welcome here, even if for the moment I still feel more than a bit alone and in quiet, and not sure of my footing and berth here yet.

This place has met and left a tremendously heavy and good, impactful first impression on me, one that hasn't pulled its gorgeous and gigantic foot up and off me yet, because I think this great beast likes me being undersole as much as I'm liking being their bestest little wolf-bug, too.

So good morning, my good and tremendous chummer Mack Lioness!

-2Paw.

I feel safe here, Jaida, or maybe more specifically I don't feel vulnerable, like I can't say what's on my mind- within the breadth of kindness and respect of our extended group and persons herein- and that even if most of the time I don't get a response, nobody's shutting me out or told me I'm wrong for having an option merited of my own design, preferences and needs as a person.

Cohost isn't the only place that's made me feel this way contextually and per its default tone and environs, but so far it's the only one that never betrayed or reduced my original first impression from the get-go and not since then, either. I like writing down my thoughts, long-form stuff, jocular shorter narrative or a little bit of silliness in cobbled phonetics, even if I know it's not covering a lot of real estate in how far it gets right now.

Somebody's gonna take a peek, sometime down the road. I'm not owed that but I know how possibility works and if it's one chance in a thousand, the best campfire of bright merit in a continental matte snowfield, that's good enough. And if what I've said or put to writ makes that person's day brighter, then that'll mean the world to me.

Thank you for being part of that world, Jaida. You honor me, and you make it good just by being my friend and co-conspirator.

-2Paw.