at a wedding, hanging out with my southern family, my cousin (med student) asked about my partner's deadname
"hey grey that's Not a question you ask"
"oh. shit, i'm sorry. well. now i know"
had a great time (hot, humid, but great), came home, that night got a text
"hey would you be down to chat sometime this week so i can ask you more ignorant questions about gender so i can try to be more in the loop?" he's a nice kid with a good heart obviously i say yes
y'all, he came with prepared questions and took notes
