we make bad posts // discord: atax1a
i mean, no, we've been systematically excluded from the bulk of the seattle queer scene because everyone thinks it's frustrating that the people who run the scenes are casually abusive fuckers, but their suggestion and solution is to "just make my own space", meaning we have no space besides that which we create ourselves, and remain an outcast who people refuse to interact with except superficially :)
i can commiserate, slightly. I'm very sorry you've been dealing with that.
I've felt deeply the pain of feeling like I don't belong in places that are ostensibly for me.